People

"The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials,the most money, or the most awards, but the ones who care for you ....."

To my Mom and Dad

This post is for my Mom and Dad who completed their 30 years of married life.I was talking to my parents yesterday and i could feel the happiness , the pride of being a successful couple for 30 years .I thought this is the best time to let them know the things that i always admired about them by writing a post in the blog.
I learned being generous to people from my father, being supportive for the family(his siblings) no matter what the situation is , being calm and quiet when things are not going your way and never to loose faith in god and always believe there are good times ahead of you always and the biggest thing i admire is his unselfishness which i feel is not common in this selfish world.
I admire my mom who always believes in herself but not in destiny and to share smallest things in the life with your loved ones and being happy with what ever she had and having no complaints about her life and the way she supported my father throughout is really amazing.
The best thing about both of them is in spite of small differences they had they always tried to accept each other which is the real beauty of relationship .So wishing them a very happy married life and congratulating them for their successful life as wife, husband ,father, mother, brother sister , father-in-law, mother-in-law , as ammamma(dambu) and thathaya and many more to come .........

with luv ajay

Questions

I am in the process of answering some of the questions posed by myself like why did this happen to me ,why did i do like that, what made me think like that at that time, i could have been different ,why did i do things that i generally don't do etc but realized by different means that they can't be answered which by itself is the beauty of life .I understood that they better be unanswered instead take the life as it comes. I was trying to find a right balance of my mind for the decisions i make which made me more strong to defend on my decisions .That's the reason i added something to the title of the blog called "Life comes too fast at you"

Did This Happen to you

Some Enchanted Evening ,you may see a stranger,
You may see a stranger across a crowded room
And somehow you know,you know even then
That somewhere you'll see her again and again

South Pacific

Happiness

I often think what is the measure of happiness? What makes people happy? Is it the materialistic comforts of this world which can be attained only on the amount of currency you have or is there something other than this that we as human beings always wait for ? I always feel the small little tiny happy things that often people don't find time to do or share with their beloved one's can be the most happiest things that they are missing.So make them your priorities and see how happy life can be and how things look different to you . Its not all about earning money , building career, luxurious life ....... . So don't change your life into a mechanical routine remember the small things you promised yourself ........